Listen to the reason for consultation
When leakage or discomfort occurs, how long it has been present, frequency, impact and what worries you most.
Before suggesting treatment, symptoms, medical history, goals and signs that may change the diagnosis are put in order.

When leakage or discomfort occurs, how long it has been present, frequency, impact and what worries you most.
Births, surgery, menopause, medication, infections, constipation, cough, sport and other relevant information.
If a gynaecological or functional examination may be useful, it is explained beforehand and requires consent.
A bladder diary, urine test, ultrasound or other investigations may be considered; they are not automatic for everyone.
Options, benefits, limits and follow-up are explained, defining what improvement will be assessed.
A medication list, relevant reports, recent results and, if possible, a three-day bladder diary. You do not need to know how to explain everything “perfectly”.
A laser or surgical procedure should not be chosen solely because of an advertising claim or a web questionnaire.